The Hidden Force Shaping Your Life

A friend once admitted to us, “I don’t know why, but everything I touch seems to fall apart.” He had lost a great job, strained his closest relationships, and felt stuck in a cycle of self-sabotage.

At first, he blamed circumstances - bad luck, difficult people, the economy. But as he spoke with us, he quickly saw the truth: his state of being was shaping everything.

It wasn’t about what was happening to him. It was about how he was showing up - his energy, his beliefs, his unspoken fears and frustrations.

We all do this. We think our inner struggles stay hidden, that no one really knows what we’re carrying inside. So we try to smile when we’re anxious. We push through exhaustion. We pretend we’re fine.

But life always ends up reflecting our innermost feelings, not the masks we wear. That’s because our states of being - those that we consciously nurture and the ones we unmindfully let fester - fuel every aspect of our life. Every decision. Every reaction. Every missed opportunity. Every achievement. Every relationship. Every contribution.

The Unseen Force Behind Everything

Think about it …

• The last time you lost an opportunity.
• The last time you gave into comfort eating.
• The last time you had a good laugh.
• The last time you lost a friendship.
• The last time you lay awake at night, thoughts racing.
• The last time you felt a deep sense of belonging.

Each of these moments was either created by your state of being - or impacted by someone else’s.

When you’re in a state of fear, you hesitate. You shrink. You sabotage.
When you’re in a state of confidence, you take action. You create. You connect.
When you’re in a state of gratitude, you see abundance. You attract more of it.

You can live blind to this reality, assuming that life is just happening to you.

Or—
You can take responsibility.

You can see the connection between your state of being and your reality.
You can choose to cultivate a state that supports your highest potential.

So, What Do You Want to Do About It?

Right now, take a deep breath.
Pause for just a few seconds.
Ask yourself:

“What state have I been living in lately?”

Not just in the big moments, but in the quiet ones. In the thoughts and whispers no one hears but me.

And if that state has been shaping my life… is it leading me where I want to go?

Because here’s the thing - you can choose.

You don’t have to stay in anxiety, frustration, or self-doubt.
You don’t have to be a prisoner to the emotions that rise and fall.

Instead, you can transform your state, and watch how your life begins to shift with it.

This is where true change begins—when we stop looking outward for solutions and start mastering the one force that shapes everything. .

If this resonated, don’t keep it to yourself - send it to someone who might need this reminder today. 

 🔥 Your state. Your life. Your choice. 🔥